25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. 28 He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with his own hands, that he may have something to share with those in need.
29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:25-32
Verses 25 through 32 are introduced with the word “Therefore.” You will see a lot of “Therefores” and “Wherefores” in Paul’s epistles because he draws conclusions on the doctrines that he puts forth. Biblical belief must lead to biblical behavior.
The previous section tells us to 1) Remove the old behavior 2) Be renewed in the spirit of our minds 3) Replace the old with the new because we are created as new people that are like God and, believe it or not, we are made to be righteous and holy! So now comes the big “Therefore.” All old patterns of the sinful life must now be replaced with Biblical thinking (23) and Biblical Behavior — mere behavior or mere thinking won’t do…
Note the “out with the bad” and “in with the good” structure of the following paragraphs:
1. Lying … replaced with always speaking the truth (25) because we are members of each other (refer back to 4:4-6, 11-12, 15-15)
2. Prolonged anger replaced with settling it before sundown (26-27) Prolonged anger gives the devil a foothold — scary thought huh?
3. Stealing is replaced with working and sharing (28) – This illustrates the self mentality being replaced with God mentality.
4. Unwholesome talk is replaced with speech that builds up others (29) – It has been noted that the sin of grieving (making sorrowful) of God’s Spirit (30), is used in connection with unwholesome talk. Perhaps we grieve God more quickly with this sin than any other! When we grieve the Spirit, we limit His effectiveness in us.
5. Bad relational stuff- (bitterness, rage, anger, brawling and slander with every form of malice) is replaced with kindness and compassion for each other. This manifests itself in forgiveness (which is not always easy). Why should we forgive? Because we’ve been forgiven.
One word, “Therefore,“ signals us to live in a new way. Chapter four tells we are to live a worthy life (1) of humility, gentleness, patience and forbearance, making an effort to live in unity with all believers (3). After all, we are one, as believers sharing many good things that God has given us (4-6). Jesus, Who died and defeated evil, rose from the dead and gave us spiritual gifts (7-10). Some of the gifts He gave us were/are people he has called further lay out the foundational teachings of Christ (Apostles, Prophets – see Ephesians 2:20), and serve the church by winning people (evangelists) , guiding (pastors) and properly informing (teachers) (11). This is that God’s people are equipped to do his will (12) and may grow into maturity and unity (13-16). We are no longer to live as those who are without Christ (17-19), but rather because Christ is our leader and transformer (20-21) we are to remove the old man’s ways (22) be renewed in our mind (23) and replace the bad with the good (24). The “how and why” are seen in verses 25-32.
God has given us clear direction THEREFORE… follow it. Whew… that WAS a BIG THEREFORE.