Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. 1 Peter 3:8
One of the greatest joys of the Christian life is to have a sense of belonging, a community of like-minded believers. God loves it when we all get along. Psalm 133:1 states “How good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity! In contrast, God hates it when there is discord and envy among believers. Proverbs 6:19 declares that one of the seven things that are an abomination is when somebody “sows discord among brethren.”
Today’s passage tells us to “live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble.” Verses 1-7 mention the wife and husband relationship. Then Peter talks to all believers in regards to living in peace with each other. What are the things that cause great relationships with fellow believers?
1. Harmony - This word means to “have the same mind.” To think the same thing. This doesn’t mean we all ought to be clones of each other, but we should strive for the same goal – to please the Lord.
2. Sympathy - This literally means “to suffer together.” How often do we take the time to listen to people’s problems with our hearts? Remember the old saying” “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”
3. Love - This is “brotherly love.” It’s from the word Philadelphia. Think of fellow believers as your brothers and sisters. Treat them as you would your own relatives (hopefully you treat your relatives well). We are in God’s family. Yes, we have our differences, but we are commanded to love those who are in the family of God. Love those for whom Christ died and are now in the family.
4. Compassion – This is a great word. Literally it means “good bowels.” It has the idea of a sense of the inner yearning and feeling great compassion for someone. It means to be tender-hearted.
The first century was cold and hard-hearted. Christianity, with its tenderizing influence upon the heart, had not had time nor opportunity yet to make much of an impact upon the callous heart of man. Today we have as a result of its benign influence hospitals, homes for the aged, charities of one sort or another. And yet how callous our hearts are to another’s pain. Only the overflowing love of God and the experience of much suffering in one’s own life can fit us to really sympathize with others in the sense of feeling their pain ourselves, thus suffering with them. – Kenneth Wuest, Word Studies from the Greek New Testament
As family members, the members of Christ’s body must look out for one another. Take time to encourage another believer. Be a blessing.